Sunday, May 10, 2009

How To Know Your Love Cheat or Cute...??


One effective means of maintaining a relationship of love is a smooth communication and honesty. But the problem is, why people fear say honestly? :d People lie because he does not feel comfortable if the truth. If untrue, said Dr. Jackie Black in his book entitled "Meeting Your Match: Cracking the Code to Successful Relationship", men will not be firm or explicit as usually. If the question directly, men will avoid or replied "do not know." To know your pair untrue or not, you do not need to polygraph engine. You just enough attention to his attitude or gesture. Among others: (Image at: Appetitejourney.com) :L

Nose touch

One of the most visible indication when people lie is often touching the nose. Itch? May be yes. But it may also, if not faced serious discussion on the context. Even touching the nose, can not be spelled out explicitly and it is sure that the language of lies. Movement touching the nose can not become aware of direct indication that the person is not ready to say is (truth). At this point you can learn from the experiences and practices that people say is not true. At that time, and without a conscious mistake, they will be touching the nose. ;)

Style Talk

People do not usually directly spoof you answer the questions. You ask "this", he answered "that". Just simple. But note the change in style of talking. If he was deceitful, style of speaking will change. If used a simple, complicated now changed. Complex. He/she talk very long, rambling, often does not touch the content of the topic and does not answer the question. :x

May be complex and forced "diksi" impressed "wow", and contains intellectual. In fact often logic haywire. Not compatible or not related. Between one thing with other things not related. Such a leap is broken. Although this point can not be positioned as a sign that the person is certainly untrue, carefulness in work are still needed to hold the tail error logic (thinking and speaking). :o :t

Different behavior than usually.

Other marks that you can hold the people of the fable is a different behavior. Other than normal. You must remember that the behavior or action associated with mind. If he does not want you to know what actually happened, gesture certainly support. There is some movement or behavior that you can see, among others: rub your neck or eyes, cover your mouth when speaking, strachs head, holding the ears, and movement with neck, but not in accordance with the own sentences. :f

Rub the eye, for example, in the science of psychology, the movement can be a form of representation or disapproval of emotion. They also close the mouth. Moreover, after the speech, he immediately close the mouth and a little surprised. That is a clear sign. Or may also strachs head. Try to see your pair good gesture. If he was honest and said so, he does not need to scratch his head. If untrue, he strachs head. Rake heads have close relations with the self-protection mechanism. Such action to divert attention and discussion from others. Also rub the neck with movement. This movement is a form of diversion emotion. :D

Pause and Error Talk

This occurred because of not ready to lie. People not ready to untrue will be nervous, stutter or not ready to anticipate the confirmation statement or even a wrong answer or talk. Pause too long in the discussion can also be indicators. That means the person is thinking how long must say something. Although this element also can not be certain benchmarks, but this element only needs to remain in dialogue or attempt to disclose the truth. :v

Therefore, you must know the basic behavior of the people, learn speech patterns, body language and face expressions. See any changes. Therefore, as much as possible avoid communication via SMS, email or phone or device. Without dealing directly, you will be difficult to observe changes that occur. That means you will also be difficult to know whether or not he is deceitful.

Back-off

Someone who like to speak honestly the most likely hate the very things that detail or details. He prefers to talk things common. Why? Because detail matters will make him difficult to say mean. Said in detail with the disassemble lie. That is usually avoided. If he was trying to play with things a detailed, must have not related. Therefore, if you want to know he was untrue or not, get him to play with things and small details. If he does not start and can be difficult runut clearly, he is likely to deceive you. Moreover, if he angry when you discuss the things that. Or avoid him. That is a clear indicator. :#

facial expression

If you talk with someone, note expression face. If the face does not change expression as before, you can still trust the man, but when you talk something and than the face and expression suddenly changed, though he said "no", he is being hide something. Or upset and then he was afraid if you know the meaning. If it is so, you will easily make him to say that actually. Look and see eyes color and face. Remember, the great deceiver was not able to control the movement cuff musculature faces the top. The top of the face muscles that react very quickly with the appropriate emotion. :d :t

What you thing? Whatever... don't forget to leave a comment with special emoticon. OK? :y

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2 comments:

Wono on May 10, 2009 at 2:29 PM said...

Hi, anybody... please leave me something with special emoticon!! Just enter the code of emoticon. Nice day...

Halo, Indonesia... kasih koment ya, jangan lupa dihiasai dengan emoticon. Masukin aja kode-kode yg ada di kanan emoticon itu. OKe...?

Salam damai

Wono on May 10, 2009 at 2:34 PM said...

Ini contohnya: tnda : n $ akan jadi :$
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